I think that you should consider The Whiteface Lodge in Lake Placid, New York. The Whiteface Lodge is a luxury all suite resort with numerous activities available for guest. Close to skiing at Whiteface Mountain, in the heart of the Adirondack Mountains, plenty of golf and home of the 1932 and 1980 winter olympics Lake Placid has plenty to entertain all.
I've been to Whiteface andreally liked it there.The suites have a feel of a Bed and Breakfast, but the innis large enough to have a sense of community among the various travellers staying there. It is located in the heart of Lake Placid, so you can easily get to the skating rink on an off-day away from skiing, and you can easily get to plenty of apres ski locations.